OK, so in less than one day i have an extra ticket for Bonnarro and free $300. Just b/c of a break up hahaha.... if ur asking why yes its sad about the break up part, but man this is the best breakup ive ever had in my life!!! i do need advice on how to handle this, im not a mean person and dont want to proceed in a mean way but also i need the money and my self respect... this is wut happened, i have been dating this guy for about 3 months (im glad it didn’t go any longer) we had it all planned to go to Bonnaroo together along some friends, he is a huge HUGE roo fest fan he's never missed one year, we all set out a budget of $300 each for the fest, to spend it on gas, food, tents, etc etc etc.... Wednesday last week i found out he was sleeping around with my step sister, it bothered me but didn’t make a big deal since we've only been together for aboutthree months so i guess feelings weren’t there yet.... at least from my behalf lol what bothered me is that my step sister is engaged and about to get married in less than 4 months! And neither of them had the decency to respectthat, but anyhow obviously i told him that the Bonnaroo trip together was over and to go on his own if he wanted to... he said he didnt want to ruin my first time Rooing since i would need to find another person fast to cover his share of the budget...Yesterday he calls me to tell me that he doesn’t want to screw me up even more now with Bonnaroo and that he will just give me his ticket plus the $300 and that he wouldn’t go anymore, of course as a first reaction i was like Heck Yeahhhh! i thought it was awesome, but now i kinda feel bad for him, he's never missed one year and he was so exited to go, at the same time i could make good use of his ticket and money too lol should i just leave all behind and let him come along with us? Should i take the ticket, money and enjoy my self and friends???? im a big Karma believer but in this case i have two points of view about Karma, i guess if he doesn’t end up going its his karma for doing what he did, and its good to me for reacting so mellow to the whole situation. But also what if it turns around to hunt me for not being kind and forgiven... I really need the advice it will be greatly appreciated.... thanks!